Friday, October 27, 2006

Lost

Finally..... I realise what I have always been believing is not true! Go to hell with loyalty! This word would definitely be erased from my dictionary forever...........

Loyalty is not worth a cent anymore...no more... not at all! My sincere advice to all those out there.....please do not stay on a job for more than 3 years.... hop when you can...do not feel guilty at all. Move on and you will see a brighter future ahead...for sure...trust me! If you stay on a job for too long...you will eventually become a liability to the company even thou you must have been an asset for many years! Your company will soon to tell you that you have already hit the maximum...be it salary or corporate title that you are holding, and they conveniently forgetton that you earned all that due to your contributions to the company.

So, all those out there, please MOVE ON IF YOU COULD! May god bless all those who decide to continue to believe in loyalty.

Tuesday, September 26, 2006

Accomplishment

Accomplishment! Has anyone ever give this word a serious thought. In life, whatever we do, we talk about accomplishment.

We grow up. We spent half of our life studying..eventually being "certified" as fit to work. We found a job...we considered it a dream job (at least for the start)...we strive hard..we move up the corporate ladder...managed to recieve a pay package we considered good (at least enough to feed ourselves?) - CONGRATUALATIONS! WE ACCOMPLISHED IN CAREER!?????

What about in marriage? Yes! Marriage. Do we link marriage with accomplishment? Yes, I think at least we should. We have to!

Have you ever wonder why do you want to get married? Peer pressure? Wanted a shoulder to lean on? Escape from shit? Wanted a more pleasant life? Wanted to spend the rest of your life with the true love that you found? Did you managed to get what you want - did you accomplish or have you landed yourself somewhere worst?

Pardon me if I am wrong. I have seen too many incidents where the girls, first dreaming of sharing her life with someone who they claimed they love and ended up in a deep shit. She is sharing her hard earned $$ with her loved, contributing to HIS car installment, THEIR household expenses, THEIR home loans.....etc etc..etc. Ya, there she is....almost suffocating.....piggy bagging her loved and completely forgotten the reason for her to get married.

So girls, why not take a little time besides working hard to earn the $$ to feed your true love, sit down and think back, "Why do I want to get married?" "Is that really the true love that I have been searching throughout my life?" "Have I accomplished in marriage?"

And Guys, besides spending time enjoying the 'fruits' of what your wife is earning with all her mights, why not ask yourself "Where is my dignity?"